Chronicles of Dolzilla

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Doin' the Humphrey Humph

Graduate school has started and I'm already behind. I think that is the permanent state of the graduate student. I am now officially a Master's of Public Affairs student at the Hubert H. Humphrey Institute at the University of Minnesota - or the Humph. I am only taking 6 credits, but with the volume of reading, it is more than enough. I taking a cour es on global public policy and another on humanitarianism. The most troubling aspect is I can now spell 'humanitarianism' without a hitch. Based on my third-grade spelling performance, that is quite an accomplishment.

Wednesday, December 27, 2006

A retelling of the last day in Addis

Is there something lost in the retelling? How about the re-retelling? I wrote all this stuff a couple of nights ago, only make some mistake as I was loading the literally last picture to lose the entire post. Thank you for listening to my whining.

Our last day in Addis saw us sneak a last trip out in the city to Shero Meda and frantic packing. Actually, we did really well on the packing. It is just that we thought we had until 6 p.m. to get out of the room, but we really only had until 4 that day. It seems that there is no definite check out time. So we had to rush, but it all worked out. I’ll get to the mad dash out of Addis later, but now I’d like to tell you about Shero Meda.

Julia had read about Shero Meda in the in flight magazine on Ethiopian. It is the large textile market in the north of the city. Julia inquired about the possibility of us going there early in the week and it was some doing for us to go. Finally we got a line on a cab driver and there were two other families that went with us. Now our man Fanta really isn’t a cab driver. He came in one the ubiquitous blue Toyota vans with a driver and a young man to open the door for us. Fanta was more of a guide, or so we were led to believe. We drove through the city and Fanta gave us a pretty good tour. Many of the sights we had seen before, but we hadn’t heard the entire story. Mexico Square, for example. Named in honor of the Mexican advisors who came to Ethiopia at the end of the Italian Occupation (end of WWII). The Mexican helped with many public works projects and Fanta said the Ethiopian people were grateful to this assistance.

The Lion of Judah was a long sought picture. We had driven past the rear of the statue many times. Now there are many “Lions” in Addis. Many of the roundabouts have statues in them and I would say the Lion is the most repeated symbol in the city. The Lion of Judah is so named because the Queen of Sheba herself traveled to Judea where she had a tryst with King Solomon. Upon her return to Abyssinia (now Ethiopia) she gave birth to Menelik I, the first Solomonic king of Abyssinia. The line ended with Hailie Selassie. The Lion was the center of the flag before the Derg (Marxists) took power in 1974.

We also learned about why the Rasta love Hailie Selassie. Not just because he is a descendant of King Solomon, but also when Hailie Selassie visited Jamaica the island was suffering from a seven year drought. As “Jah” was there, it rained for seven days straight. Fanta also told us that there is a colony of Rasta in Ethiopia that started with 10,000 and continues to this day. He said they are part of society and intermarry and carry on as any other Ethiopian.

Back to the day’s travels. We were able to cut through traffic and get in front of Addis’ big lion for a photo op, stopping right in the middle of traffic to do so of course. I really felt a bit of closure getting the picture of the Lion. We had literally driven right past the back of it at least twice. I remarked the I wanted a picture, but our previous drivers weren’t too accommodating. This is my only complaint with them. If a person travels 8000 miles to Addis, seeing the Lion should be on the itinerary.

After we snapped the pictures of the Lion, we drove past the Sheraton, the premire hotel in all of Africa. One of Addis’ many points of pride. One the way we drove past the Empirial Palace, which is a no photo zone due to the Prime Minister living there. We also drove past the African Union and Parliament. It felt a little weird to take a picture of a hotel. It is really impressive and it was also nice to know at $269 a night, I at least had something in common with the average Ethiopian, I wasn’t going to be staying at the Sheraton any time soon.

Shero Meda is a section of town on the same road as the US Embassy. We were only about a mile away from it the Tuesday before. Totally different than the Mercato. For one, safe. We went to a part of it that is kind of fenced off from the main road, but I don’t think we would have had any problems in any of Shero Meda. The shops we went into were tiny. From what I gathered, people actually rented the spaces from the city and square footage was at a premium. You could barely get four people into one of them. With the baby backpack, I had a hard time turning around. On our way there, Fanta had emphasized how he wanted us to stick together and he would help us get the right price. It was hard to stick together in such a small store, and since it was pretty secure, the other two families went off by themselves, in the same vicinity of course.

Julia was very interested in picking up some scarves for gifts for family and friends. As we were kind of short on Birr, we had to wheel and deal. We were unable to come to a 4 for 100 deal at one shop and we moved to another. Then it hit me that we had $20 US with us. Julia then had that capital to negotiate with us. When we were in the 4-for-100 place, I had thought the shopkeeper was very tense and not pleased, but just put it as her not really wanting to give any price break to Westerners. I know there is a ‘Westerner Tax’ when you buy things in Ethiopia, and I am fine with it. But I could live without the attitude.

There was one scarf that pained Julia to have to leave at that shop. As she was negotiating with her $20, I went back to shop to buy the scarf. The shopkeeper was a totally different person when I entered by myself. Before I could say what I wanted she said. ‘I give you the 4 for 100. That man you are with, he is a businessman, asharäkä (I think this is the word).’ Seems we were with a man who was part of that part of Ethiopia that has the Italian influence, and I’m not talking pizza. She hurridly told me that he would come back to her shop if she sold things in his presence and extort from her. Five Birr per scarf and I’m sure more for other things. I quickly picked out three other scarves and dashed out of the shop after thanking the woman in order to not draw the attention of Fanta. I put the scarves in the backpack of another couple, just to get them out of my hands. (Thank you Kevin and Emily). I went back to the shop Julia was in told her that I didn’t get the scarves. Actually I told her that I did, but that I “didn’t,” she just heard the didn’t part. She made a very good deal with her $20, seven scarves and a dress for Ella Mesay. While she was wrapping that up, I went back to that shop and gave the woman an extra 10 Birr. Something told me that Fanta would be calling on her. I told her to give him that 10 if he did. She was very grateful. I’m glad I did that. I wanted her to know that we weren’t part of any shakedowns. I told the rest of our travel group what was going on as discreetly as possible; they seemed none too pleased. There was part of me that expected this kind of thing, but the reality of it dimmed my enthusiasm a bit. I’m really quite bummed it turned out like that. I liked Fanta to that point.

We got back into the blue Toyota and headed back to the guesthouse. We had to hurry to make lunch, which you cannot be late for. Fanta was trying to draw us into more travel time (more of a fee, I’m sure), but we had (at least Julia and I) enough of Addis for the moment. We did drive through the Piazza, a higher end-shopping district of the city. On our return trips, I would like to explore it more. We saw several Westerners on the street there. We did have to circle every monument on the way back, though. We had some pictures of them from earlier trips, but I felt obligated, just trying to be polite. The cannon (wooden) you see here has an interesting story. Seems during one of the many European invasions during the colonial period, the Ethiopian built a cannon like this, packed it by hand over several mountain passes (Fanta said it took 10,000 to complete the task), loaded the thing and fired it once. Of course the thing blew from here to kingdom come, it’s wood, killing 1000 in the process. Ethiopians. And now it is part of a monument in a roundabout. There are many things to ponder in that story. Failure, monuments . . . building a wooden cannon? . . . It is good to see that every nation has something in its history that confuses.

Fanta was a bit disappointed when we got back to the guesthouse and we only tipped him 50 Birr (on top of the 150 fee). The way we figured, he’d gotten his tip with his business practices.
Julia and I spent the afternoon leisurely packing, jotting down notes on the guesthouse computer for future visitors, and hanging with the other travelers and Ella. I took one last stroll down our street. I picked up another pair of Ethiopian foam sandals for myself and Julia a couple pair. It was nice to walk the street one more time, but I was feeling ready to come home.

Ella was exceptionally well behaved while we were packing. It was amazing all the room we had in the luggage, with the donations gone. Around 4 p.m. we were asked if we were out of the room by Herrot, the cook. Well that put us in a scramble. After our “10 more minutes” turned into 45, we got our stuff out of the room. I was feeling bad that it had taken so long, but when I saw other’s progress, I knew we were ahead of the game. We had our soup at 5:30 and then a meeting with Asnake at 6. I thought we were going to leave by 6:30, but we were all in Asnake’s office where we watched one of the life books and got ours (everyone else did too). I was starting to get nervous.

After our experience at Bole earlier in the week, I was worried about getting through the security, immigration and all those things that can go wrong with travel. When we came out of Asnake’s office, all of our luggage was gone, loaded into one of the blue Toyota vans. We had our carry-ons . . . some of them. With my general tension with the travel in general, being separated from my luggage was a bit unsettling. Then we did what we always did while in Addis, sit around and wait for the drivers to get coordinated. I could tell I was a bit nervous, my stomach wasn’t feeling all that great, and the waiting was bothering me . . . I was really concerned about making it through the airport.

You have to put your entire luggage through the checkpoint, which is right at the door. I was really happy that we were down a piece coming back. I didn’t need the stress of thinking I had forgotten another bag. All this was complicated with the fact that I’d lost around 10 pounds, so I’m trying to corral this luggage while holding my pants up with one hand, Julia is trying to calm an overwhelmed baby, my shoes bouncing around in the mix. A photo-op I was glad passed everyone up. I had a real panic when I thought I had lost the bag with the cameras in it, but it was there, flopped at my feet. After we got out of that, we went to the ticketing counter. Again Cloud Nine (Business Class) paid dividends. We walked the red carpet, literally, and, as we were the line, we checked in with no problem. We actually had gotten an airport porter when we had come into the airport. It was worth what money we gave him to have someone else push the cart, even for just a little bit. He got us all the way to the immigration check out, where we had to fill out a card with all our information on it. As we were all worried about time, I took a batch of the cards back to our fellow travelers who were all still in line. Julia was having a hard time writing on our forms while she was holding Ella, so she took back round two of forms for the rest of the group.

We got through the imigration check to leave Ethiopia quite easily and headed up to the Cloud Nine lounge. When we got there, I took off to locate some water for the return flight. On our trip over, we didn't even come close to having enough to drink. I don't know if I had ever been more dehydrated. It took days for us to recover, and I wasn't going to go through that again, plus having Ella and her formula needs. Well I should have waited, no more did I get out the door, did Ella have a "blow out." It took me a while to find some place to buy the water on top of everything. When I returned, Julia was none too please, and I can't blame her. It was a disasterous way to start our adventure, but foreshadow nonetheless.

After Julia got Ella cleaned up and changed, we rested for a bit and headed to wait to board. We got on the plane after a pesky delay checking in, but in retorspect, I think my complaint here is just tired. We got settled in our seats, but the flight attendent arranged for us to move to different seats that would allow us to have a basinette.

Now the flight that ensues is one of those experiences in life I have to rank in the top five for miserry. I got sick, I tried, unsuccessfully, to vomite during the first half of it on numerous occasions, and I could bearly stay cohearent. Ella is inconsoluable and the only person who can attempt is Julia. Julia, bless her, has to hold Ella almost the entire flight. I believe there was a two hour streach where Jules could actually put her in the basinet. Ella would scream if anyone else held her, including myself. I've never felt more worthless in my existance. I couldn't stay awake from the illness and then when I was lucid, I couldn't do anything but sit there and be stupid. I did hold Ella a few times so Julia could just use the bathroom. Man, did that little girl scream. Of course there are people who want to help, and I'm sure they were well meaning, but Julia was at her wits end and she knew that there was nothing these others could do. She did a great job of being kind and respectful to those people. I don't know how.







I’ll finish later and put on some pics . . . too late to do all that now.

I’ll finish later and put on some pics . . . too late to do all that now.

Monday, December 11, 2006

Meandering thoughts at 4 a.m.

It is not jet lag, that was over really fast. It is what I am calling fiber lag. Mesay's first night with us is going well. She did wake up an hour ago and had some water and a diaper change. She wouldn't take the bottle. They just changed here, yesterday, from F100 to Babelac 3, a commercial formula here and Mideast. So I'm here with 1.5 liters of Ethiopian spring water and updating the blog. The joys of modern travel.

Just reading the comments from the companion blog, AddisAbaby. Some of them have to be OKed to be published. Also, an interesting thing is we can't actually see the blogs here. We've had to moterate the comments and that is why you might not see them publish right away. I have to get that set up for this blog. OK, enough of that.

Today we had the tour of the Children's Home facilities. We went to the school where I got to see the football (soccer) ball that I brought put into use. It is a six dollar job from Fleet Farm and it is the nicest piece of sporting equipement they have. Zach, a teacher at the school and he lives in the guest house, said the kids were absolutely thrilled to get it. I have a few more balls to give out. I am going to let Zach be the ball minder. He will take care of them, I'm sure. Then we went to the Infant and Toddler center where Julia and I have spent a lot of time this last few day. We skipped the tour and played with Ella. Our final stop was at the center for the older children. They mobbed us, wanting to be held and play. Samantha, the 13 year old girl of one of the couples traveling with us, was so lovely playing ball with the children. Throwing it to each in turn as the other laughed. Ella was sleeping, she fell deeply on the short drive, saw Julia sitting in a chair. The children were so respectful with Ella and her, but they still got what attention they could. I played with a couple younger ones, doing that pick up, twist them to your sholder, and then they backflip as you lower them tgame, I hope you know what that is. Big hit. Then I saw a little boy off to himself, with a flipflop he was clutching. No one was playing with him and he was shy. I went up to him and his immediate smile was just beautiful, defying words. I picked him up, tickled him, twirled him around. We had 10 minutes tops, but I love him. His name is Seezelou or something close, I only heard it whispered and just once. Such a beautiful young boy. I am so honored to give him that short time to laugh and be happy. I couldn't contain my emotion when I set him down and just broke down as we went into the van. I cry as I write this now. Most of the children at that center are placed with families and will leave in the next month, thank God. Otherwise, I honestly don't know if I could control myself. This paticular boy, I don't know if he is or not, but whoever he is placed with is blessed.

Mossi and Zach seem to be a bit more tense lately. The troubles with Somolia are giving them so security concerns. I don't know how aware others are, but they are discreet about it. It is nice to be in the capital and close to the embassey. I don't write this to concern you, but you may be hearing things in the news and I want you to know we are aware and precausious. I would hate to think of anything hurting the beautiful people of Addis. Don and Andrea, Samantha's parents, walked down to the Care Center around 5:30 p.m. to see their boy, Nahom, who will join us tomorrow, fulltime. At 8, Zach became a bit agitated, you could tell by his movements. He was talking with a friend in England (Zach is from SE India), but you could tell he wasn't fully there. He excused himself and discreetly as possible said he was going to the care center. He left and brought them back. That is what I mean by his tension. I think Mossi may require us to ride everywhere at least at night. You may think that is crazy to say we haven't, but I've never felt any hostility towards us, at least in Addis.

The amount of lifestock in the city is absolutely hilarious. Today, a small herd of cattle, came down our street. We got some stills of it and I a little video. Goats and some poltery. I don't know if they really are chickens. The donkeys that are ubiquitous in the south are missing though. I did see a couple today.

The dogs bark constantly at night. If I were home, I'd be so pissed. But here you just deal with it. It is the same thing about the crazy driving, you just deal with it. I hope I can keep this sense of calm when we get back. Americans could really relax. Traffic and dogs aren't important. It is five now, I thought the call for prayed would start soon. I should try to make certain things happen again. I hope it doesn't hit me at the Embassy. I hear the bathrooms are terrible. Go figure, the US Embassy, a little slice of home, can't come through with a decent washroom. Something that is important.

Just threw some more pics on. We will post captions some time, but till then use you imagination. Thank you for all your well wishes.

Saturday, December 09, 2006

Boots on the ground

Please see AddisAbaby.blogspot.com for the latest on the adoption and meeting our girl.

Took a few walks in Addis Ababa today . . . to the Care Center and back and also to the pizza joint a few blocks away. We are in one of the swanky parts of the city . . . mind you it is Ethiopia, use your judgment on swanky. Embassys are all around us. In close vacinity is the Norwegeian, Danish, Malawi and Togo compounds. Every thing is a compound here . . . I'd love to have the concrete concession.

The poverty is a lot to take in . . . the care center is very nice . . . but again a lot to take in . . . each of those close to thirty children has a story that would tear at your heart . . . .but they are placed with a family or soon will . . . and there are thousand's of orphans in Ethiopia . . . Africa as a whole . . . a lot to take in . . . how can you say it otherwise.

I have to say . . . I feel safe here . . . not a problem with the locals . . . looks, but no looks of displeasure . . . and we even walked on the street at night . . . the most dangerous thing is the drivers . . . I don't know if it safer to be in or out of the vehicle.

Addis has its own wonderful smell . . . you'll like I'm crazy . . . but spicy dirt with a hint of urine on occasion, not over powering or really unpleasent, but there . . . I like it.

Anyway . . . hope you are enjoying the vicariousness . . .

Friday, December 01, 2006

Six days, a long plane trip and then "Dad?"

The Zilla has six days until he travels to Ethiopia to pick up his daughter Ella Mesay, accompanied, of course, by the lovely Julia. He has been scurrying around the house doing the last minute projects (painting the bathroom, putting a door in at the top of the stairs, finishing the trim), steeling himself for the emotional experience of the third world and fatherhood, and panicking.

He is now going to drop the pretension of writing in the third person.

To bring you up to speed, the move to Wisconsin was completed in July. Like all moving experiences, it was a pain. The "Job Search" didn't bear fruit, so I've been subbing at some of the local schools. I work almost everyday in November, but the pay is pretty poor. But, besides the boredom, it is fascinating. At least I am learning a lot about the other grades and assignments. I did a two week stint as a sixth grade Home-Ec teacher. We did a sewing project. It was fun and the kids came out with a locker organizer, 10 fingers and no extra holes in the body. Kindergarten, which I've done a couple of times, is the most interesting. I didn't know they were such little fibbers. By omission most times, but there is usually some sort of scam afoot.

I also was the Tech Director and Assistant on the Menomonie High play. It was nice to make a little money there, but it was weird being second fiddle and the cast not being "my kids." I am really glad that I had a good director. If he wouldn't have had a clueless, it would have been hard. I was in the Menomonie Theater Guild's production of "Brighton Beach Memoirs." That was a lot of fun. It had been five years? Since I'd been on stage. Well, I had a cameo in the BG musical, but besides that. I thought the play came out really well. It was fun and I feel good about my part in it.

Back to the adoption. What a ride. I'm getting over the panic part of it and starting to get really excited. There are a lot of things to get done around the house . . . Why am I writing in the blog then . . . But they'll get done. I mostly worried about the packing. We have a lot of donations, but we have to pack for a child, but we don't have her baggage allotment on the trip out. We are flying business class, oh, yeah, expensive, but I feel it will worth it. I am concerned about being rested and able to take it all in. Plus, I am somebody and I do deserve a 'snooty' trip.

I should get back to work. I plan on updating the blog at least while on the trip, if not before then. So please check back. If any of you know how to post pics on one of these, please let me know. I'm too lazy to look up the information myself.

Oh, an interesting video on YouTube "Addisin4:30" . . . a car trip around Addis Ababa, the capital of Ethiopia, and where we are going. We are also taking a day trip to Hosanna, to see the birth family, hopefully. I am taking a video camera and Julia has her digi. So maybe you can live vicariously through us.

Monday, May 22, 2006

A Golden Wedding

The 'Zilla has just returned from Ashland Oregon and the Oregon Shakespeare Festival. Three days with 23 high school students. The only really hard thing was the most ear splitting laugh ever heard. It even made the actor's of The Importance of Being Earnest break character. As one of the student's said, "it sounds like a duck caught in the blades of a dull woodchipper." Zilla has then had to listen to the dead-on impressions of it. He still laughs at them. We'll see how long his humor will hold.

Besides Earnest, the group also saw The Winter's Tale, Intimate Apperal, and The Diary of Anne Frank. All of them well done. However, the Zilla has a few issues with the staging of Anne Frank, being that he has had the honor of directing the play twice. IA is a fantastic play with great common themes and, frankly, WT is a snoozefest.

Zilla is in the midst of Tempest rehearsals. It goes on weekend after next. It should be good and the Zilla only has to come up with a set. It will be simple and work. That's all that can be asked of him.

The job search conitinues . . . It makes the Zilla nervous and in want of Diet Shasta.

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

It has come to this!

In an attempt to seem cool, in "The Now," proof that I have an existance, I have entered the blogosphere.

Some way you, dear reader, have found yourself at this address. If I know you "welcome." If I don't . . . well welcome too. Comments are cool, but please remember my mother will eventually see this page, therefore I would appriciate your good behavior.

That's just asking to be flamed or whatever it is called.

As I look at an American high school student walking around the classroom with fairy wings and not being pelted with spitballs or insults, I have a bit of hope for the world.

Thank you for allowing me to share it with you. Kent.